Soul Integration to Achieve Successful Relationships
by Rowland Anton Barkley
Printed in Universus magazine, Brasília, Brazil, 2000

Shamanic Soul Integration is a valuable tool for opening people to successful and passionate relationships.

A presupposition (cornerstone idea) of Soul Integration: If you are complete, nothing can touch you.  A being secure in its own wholeness does not continually attract problems.  Only when aspects of the Being has gaping wounds (emotional or self-negation), can alien spirits or other’s discarded energy come in.

There are many phrases used in common language that are indicators of soul loss.  "Half of me is back in my home country", "she stole my heart", -  When you feel a major body reaction on passing your childhood home, a place where you were hospitalized, lost a lover, or had your creativity plagiarized, there is sure to be soul loss involved.

A person with a feeling of emptiness, craving another to fill them up with love, will attract another person who is empty. This is a co-dependent relationship. Once you become whole, you will attract a whole person.

Once in a session a client said “I married the wrong person, and Love flew out the window.” The Shamanic response was to gently ask “Well, would it be alright to bring it back?” The client was silently busy for 15 minutes, and acted breathless, as if she had been running, and had returned with the power to love.

Holding onto a soulpart of another, either consciously or unconsciously, is common and even considered romantic, and leaves no room in your life for that new start that you want.

One common problem I deal with is people who still feel a great loss or upset about a relationship breaking up, sometimes even years later. In almost all cases, they have left a part of their soul in the other person’s body, and it is upset of angry at being left or held captive there. Returning the soulpart is a life-changing action, restores the power to love, and removes the old emotional chains.

Often, even an experienced therapist can do a wonderful job relieving their client's traumatic imprint, yet not return the soulpart missing back in the trauma. This is sending home a contented half-person. Without Soul Integration, we are usually only counseling a small part of the person, so the results are mediocre.

 Shamanic journeys may be performed in order to find the lost soul part, which may be located in an "ordinary" or an alternate reality. The soulpart may be lost in time, place, or stolen by another person. The shaman returns from the journey with the soul part, and "blows" it with a breath into the body of the client.

People with soul loss can have huge gaps in their electrical field.  Often a purely therapeutic technique fails to return their emotional ability, as where there is a hole left in their electrical field, some alien energy can come in to fill the vacuum. No therapy can be complete without calling back the part of the person that left.

What situations could cause soul theft?  Take a couple that separates and one doesn't want to go.  Theft can happen in emotional desperation, a powerful action at a spiritual level that rips off a part of the person.  A man sent to jail may take a large part of his wife’s soul in with him.  In the situation of hero worship of a famous person, fans get so entranced they rip off bits, leaving parts of themselves on the star, maybe even leading the star to later suicide.

Negative affirmations that split off soulparts are the most world famous subject for song writing. "I gave her everything, and look what she did to me".  These negative suggestions to self keep your soulparts in isolation.  Often soulparts are forced on the other partner, so he or she then steals a part back.  Returning and recovering all stolen soulparts back concerning all your past relationships does wonders for your sex life.

Two integrated people, with all their soul present, have a chance of experiencing the kind of ecstasy and love together that they dreamed was possible.

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